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Dating Psychology (Women 101)
Understanding Attraction We may be attracted to people in a variety of ways. Some of the ways are aquaintances, friendships, and intimate relationships. We choose people through means of physical attraction and love. Many of us make first impressions, stereotypes, and act a certain way based on a person's physical appearance. The person's looks are the first thing we notice. Once we get to know a person, the appearance seems to take a backseat. Does it seem fair that attractive people get more attention than those who are less attractive? Attractive is a relative term, but is attractive to one person, may not be attractive to another. Men were shown a television program that had attractive young women. Another group of men were given a photo of an attractive woman at the beach. After watching the television show, and after being given the attractive photo of the female, both groups were given a photo of an average woman you may see on the street. The results from both groups were that the woman was not very attractive. 
The results of this experiment proves that our standards for beauty are so high, that admiring the average beauty may be a challenge. Maybe if the two groups were given the photo of the average looking woman first, they may have been able to appreciate ordinary beauty. Unfortunately, many men associate beauty with the women they see on television. Judging the entire world by what a few actressess look like, is unfair, unrealistic, and ignorant to both men and women. We may feel like this is what we want, when in fact, there are many other factors to consider.
Physical attraction is only one aspect of a relationship. It is important to have things in common with people as well. People tend to want to meet other people that have similar beliefs, views, and opinions. An example of this may be two people that meet in an organization may go out on a date, due to similar interests. "How Am I Doing?" Sometimes it may be difficult to tell how your date is going. The following lists some good and bad signs:
If you experience three or more of these bad signs, it may be a good idea to end the date early. Remember, under no circumstance, you should never threaten, insult, or be rude to these women. These actions may make the women feel upset and make you look like an immature person. Simply excuse yoursely in a professional business manner. 
The following are all positive courtship signals given by females:
WingWomenUSA feels it is important to share with people some of the most common body language gestures given by single women, for a number of reasons. Both men and women need to feel comfortable with each other, as well as, need to understand each other. If we both understand what signals or gestures are being given, we are more likely to develop a meaningful and lasting relationship. It is also important not to make people feel uncomfortable, embarrassed, or ashamed about who they are or what they do. Over the last 20 years or so, it seems that men and women have become too concerned about physical appearance and financial status. So many other factors apply. What is "Dating?" |